How to form a lasting bond between and American and a European

I've only lived on two continents (Australia and North America), unfortunately. But over that time, my circle of friends has expanded to include at least one person in every country (okay so maybe I don't know anyone from Iraq or Afghanistan but I do have friends from Moldova, Iran, and Tonga). I think people outside of Europe are easier to befriend than Europeans, maybe because they don't think they're better, smarter, richer and less obese than you. Fortunately, my European friends have grown to learn the opposite about me. I'm not obese which I'm sure they were aware of seeing that I'm 110 lbs and 5'8 and I have my masters degree. So I've proved two stereotypes wrong...or so I thought. It doesn't matter how book smart you are to Europeans, if you say one dumb thing once...Like the time I said that America was the only reason the whole world isn't speaking German (okay so my dad's a little patriotic about WWII), you're dumb forever.

Fortunately, I had great friends who tell it like it is. As an American, I was told I brag too much, I'm arrogant and I think I'm better than othe rpeople. Unfortunately, a lot of Americans are taught to think that by stating their accomplishments, other people will look at you and think it's great. Not the case in Europe. My best friend/significant other in Australia was Swedish and he taught me all about modesty and individuality. He taught me about how to maintain your individuality without bragging about accomplishments and being modest about your experiences. It was a totally new thing to me. I also learned from my BFF who is a Brit that girls don't always have to be catty and insane to each other. She was the nicest, most supportive friend I've ever had who thanked me for how much I taught her during our friendship and would always compliment me.

The best part about both of these friendships, and the others I'v ehad with Europeans, is that their humour is totally dry and sarcastic. YOu have no idea if they're insulting you or if that was just a joke. Most of the time it's a joke but it can be really difficult sometimes to tell the difference.

So if you want to be friends with a European you have to realise the friendship will not be artificial, you will have to learn to figure out the difference between a joke and an insult, and you should never take for granted their friendship because it can be one of the most real relationships you will ever experience during your lifetime.

Communal showers...way too socialist, even for Europe

So I booked my stay in Stockholm as I said in a previous post. As I was showing how beautiful and ikea-esque it was to my mother, I realised that I had missed something in the amenities section of the webpage: COMMUNAL SHOWERS. I looked through every review wondering why every American and Australian had said this was such a great place if I had to shower in a circle with random german backpackers (don't mind me...all travellers have a fear of german backpackers). I immediately thought that there is no way I am showeirng in front of other people at the age of 24. It's okay in high school when at least you know most of hte people, but with randoms? Not a chance in hell.
About an hour later, I found it to be a pretty hysterical situation because only I would book a hostel with communal showers. I asked my ex boyfriend, who is Swedish, about the popularity and abundance of this abnormality in his home country and he alerted me to the fact that their version of communal showers is not my version (ie a prison shower). Apparently the girls and the boys are separated and there are shower curtains to close you in...or so he says. He also then suggested it might be a fun way to get me to "open up more," which I knew was an attack on my lack of sexual experience with WOMEN. Not funny at all. So hopefully when I arrive in Stockholm in October, I won't be too surprised to find that I need to wear a bathing suit to take a shower.

One of the best tourism commercials ever....

Melbourne is one of my favourite cities and I was just reminded of this great advertisement:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jENsTGWzC3g

One of the best tourism commercials ever....

Getting around Europe...the hard way

Going to three countries in 15 days? Not a problem. Leaving out of four different stations/airports to get out of London? INSANE.

So my travel plan is to head from London Heathrow to Manchester, UK to visit my best friend. Only I've discovered that the cheapest (maybe not the most time efficient way) of getting there is to go on megabus.* It's 5 pounds one way which is roughly ten dollars,but with the pound falling steadily it could be closer to 9$ at this point. The downside is I have to take the tube from Heathrow to Victoria Coach Station which means I have to hop on the Picadilly line, switch at Acton Town or South Kensington and get onto the District or Circle Line to get off at Victoria. While this migh tseem like way out of the way of convenience, its way better than paying 40 quid aka 80 USD to take a OW train to Manchester. So once I hop on the bus, I have 4-5 hours on the bus to Manchester.

After spending about a week in Manchester, I'll be heading back to London on megabus again for about 5 quid. Getting dropped off at Victoria Station again, I then have to find the Eurostar rail station so that I can catch the chunnel train to Paris. No idea how to do this yet. Hopefully the tube will take me there.

After getting to Paris, I'll take the subway to Montmarte, where I'll be staying for 3 days. I chose a hostel that was within atleast 5 minutes walking distance of a subway so that I'm not too inconvenienced to get around the city. Montmarte is about a 15 minute subway ride into the city center where all the tourist crap is.

Heading back to London on the Chunnel, I then have to get to London Stansted airport in two hours. Easybus tickets take you from Victoria Coach Station as well so I'll be heading back that way. It's about 4 quid each way (approx 8 dollars). From London Stansted, it's a 2 1/2 hour flight to stockholm with my BFF. Unfortunately, it was cheaper to fly Ryanair to an airport in the Middle of Nowhere, Sweden. The total RT cost of a flight to Stockholm was (drum roll please) 55 bucks. Not too bad considering on SAS it was 200$. So once we land in Stockholm at noon, we catch the flygbussarna from VST airport which costs about 30$ RT and which drops us off...somewhere?? I'm not really sure where the drop off point is yet. But I'm guessing it's in the city of Stockholm which is on a different ISLAND from where we are staying in Sodermalm. We, I mean I, chose to stay in Sodermalm because it is full of hipster-esque kids my age (mid-20's) with lots of cool bars, shops and fun things to do. It's likened to the BK (brooklyn) of Stockholm...

Our hostel is insanely awesome. Looks like a mini ikea with brand new swedish tempur pedic mattresses. In fact, the entir ehostel is new. I'm very excited to not be sleeping in a so-so bed while travelling for once.







* I just took the megabus last weekend from philadelphia to new york for 20.50$ roundtrip which beats amtrak's gazillion dollar train tickets and the insane/smelly chinatown bus that costs $30 RT. (my trip to nyc would have been cheaper had i planned farther ahead). but ohwell, still cheaper.